dinner for 40.

As I mentioned in my last post, we celebrated Matt’s birthday with a rather large dinner party. I’m really excited to share it with you because I think it’s important to demystify this part of entertaining: planning and having events that could otherwise seem unattainable or just plain scary to pull off.

I was really happy with how it all went! There were hitches, there were teensy hang ups, but overall it was a wonderful night with wonderful people and I hope it made them and Matthew feel so special.

Let’s just jump in, shall we?

I created a pinboard of inspiration for this event. I kind of knew what I wanted: outdoor twinkle lights, good food and a thoughtful menu, wine, candles, and one long table that we could all sit at together. The perfect spot for this proved to be our Bocce court in the backyard next to the letterpress studio.

I borrowed some tables and rented the remaining, plus 40 chairs and five long white tablecloths. The glassware, silverware and dishes were borrowed from an awesome friend. (Can you believe she has dinner service for 50? Talk about incredible.) The flowers I picked up from the farmer’s market, and the butcher paper runnerĀ  I had a roll of in the studio.

I kept the table setting simple and low. The menu was a cuff around the silverware and napkin, we tucked rosemary from the garden into each as a little aromatic. The napkins were actually floursack cloths picked up for 60 cents each (cheaper then renting them! Need some kitchen towels? I’m stocked now!!)

Here’s the deep-breath part: I decided not to cater this event. The price tag was just too big. Also, I wanted more control and variance than was offered at an affordable amount (read: not another tri-tip, rice and bagged salad event). So, instead, I came up with an appetizer menu (again, thanks pinterest), pre-prepped as much as I could, hired our wonderful babysitter and a couple of her friends as service staff (complete with $7 black aprons from Cash & Carry), and then ordered huge pans of Paella from our little Spanish restaurant here in Chico. Plus fresh bread from the Tin Roof Bakery, large bowls of tossed greens with sherry vinaigrette, and birthday cake from the completely wonderful Upper Crust Bakery.

The appie menu? Here it is.

Watermelon Feta bites with fresh mint and balsamic reduction:

Completely amazing bite. Really. The little well for the balsamic is a genius idea, but I can’t claim credit for it, I found that part on pinterest. I need to insert a major shout out here to my sister-in-law Kelly, who was visiting from Colorado and sous-chefed 100% of this dish at close-to-the-last minute for me (the batch that I had preprepped had completely frozen in the back of the fridge!)

We passed caprese skewers (cherry tomatoes, basil and fresh mozzarella balls). So easy, so delicious.

And, using a recipe from my fabulous assistant Elizabeth, we made virgin Sangria to serve beside the wine and sparkling water.

We had a station for cheese and hummus and dips, and also passed figs with prosciutto, goat cheese and rosemary cracker (yum!) and turkey spinach meatballs picked up from Bacio.

Those were the appetizers. But the fun had barely begun!

I pinned the whole length of the fence with photos from Matt’s many years. There were so, so many to choose from. I mean, this is the guy who sees a camera aimed at him and automatically goes to pick his nose. Pure gold from a photography standpoint.

People loved looking at them and finding themselves at spots in his life…

Then, it was time for dinner!!

This was by far my favorite part of the evening. Good food, good friends, good conversations, and plenty of laughter and memories (not to mention perfect weather).

In my mind, this is really why you throw a dinner party: the mingling of conversations, kinship, the breaking of bread, enjoying each other’s company.

A toast, a roast (or four or five) later, and we brought out the birthday cake (40 candles!!) and sparklers…

Sparklers make everything just a bit more fun. It was an enchanted evening.

That my friends, is one 40th birthday party and one dinner for 40 people.

Many thanks to our friend Matt Wolf for taking the lovely photos so that I could enjoy the event without a large Nikon around my neck.

Are you going to go plan a big event? What’s the biggest entertaining you’ve ever done? Tips? I’d love to hear your stories!!

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  • Matt Tennis says:

    Thanks so much, sweetheart for the unforgettable night! You are a lovely and talented catch, and the perfect compliment to my charmed life. Thank you, also, to all of my wonderful friends who joined us for an enchanting evening of food and friendship.

  • Caryn says:

    Wow! This looks lovely. What a fabulous idea. I would love to try a big dinner party someday. The biggest party we’ve had was with 28 people. It was a scary movie party around Halloween. We themed it “Wait Until Dark” which is the vintage Audrey Hepburn movie we watched. (if you haven’t seen it, you should. I love it, and i hate scary movies) My husband created a post card invite with awesome lettering and clever details. Our small house was packed with friends. We served snacks like popcorn, cookies, and apple slices with caramel. One of my favorite details was carving out 2 pumpkins, filling them with ice and then putting the beverages inside. We also carved 4 pumpkins with the Wait Until Dark lettering (and one had a match on it) that lined the walk to our door. Watching the movie crammed into our living room was so cozy. And for the last 10 minutes of the film we turned off all the lights, which is what they did when the film originally played in theaters. It was such a blast!

  • Maggie says:

    It’s perfection, Rebekah. Well done!!!

  • Tina Dahl says:

    Speechless Rebekah…..just stunning! I love each and every detail. I have resisted getting on Pinterest so far….maybe I NOW need to get on it now! Great job and happy belated 40th Matt!

  • elizabeth says:

    NICE work!

  • Laura says:

    Not only gorgeous, but full of laughter and love. What a spectacular start to another exciting year for Matt Tennis!

  • kobbs says:

    Classy and sentimental and fun. I am blessed to have you both as friends! (The food was delicious; I talked about it for days.)
    Do you have time to blog in Korea?

  • colleen says:

    so Beautiful… the story, the night,and the courageous dinner! You are one brave wife! and as your husband said, very talented. thanks for sharing!

  • Teresa says:

    Wow! This is my second time looking at this. It looks like something that was photographed for Martha Stewart or Food and Wine magazines. Magical! Made me wish I could be there.

  • Wendy says:

    We did a similar thing with pictures for our daughter’s graduation party. Though we hotglued copies to a bunch of ribbon strung up on the wall. It didn’t hold nearly as well as yours did. It did look awesome for about one hour.

  • Stella says:

    Happy belated 40th birthday Matt Tennis! Our lives would be dull without you!

  • Jill says:

    I love the table setting you created here, it is so…perfect! You totally set the mood for the event. Would you mind sharing how you printed the cuffs for the napkins? Did it wrap all the way around the napkin like a band? I absolutely love this idea – what a great way to set a table.

    Thanks!

    • rebekah says:

      I printed the cuffs on a laser printer, cut the paper, and wrapped it around the napkin like a band. No tape necessary, just tucked it under. Hope this helps!

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